Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Apabila Lidah Menguasai Bicara~

Assalamualaikum wbt.
Entry kali ni aku nk cakap sket pasal 'tersalah cakap'..
aku tau,setiap org pasti pernah tersalah cakap kn?
especially when u got angry..
words keep flowing thru ur lips n u seems can't control them..
and then...

"SORRY!!I DIDN'T MEAN THAT"

SORRY?????!!!?!?
is it just as simple as that??
pernah my EIFJAN ckp..
nana..let me quote this eh??hehe

" 'Sorry' is not good enough..it won't fix a broken glass,as well as a broken heart..If it is meant to be this way,leave it to HIM..HE,the ONLY ONE who creates heart surely can fix it." :)

well,sorry seems to be the hardest word,right?
tapi,,kalo dah selalu sgt mintak maaf,kat mana harga maaf tu?
sekali dua mybe boleh,tp kalo dah bkali2,fed up weh!
of course la say sorry better than buat xtahu..
tapi smpai bila..
xkan xnak buat improvement kan??
that's why kte kna THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK..
before something bad happen.. ;)


I admit..
aku xterlepas drp buat kesilapan ni..
lepas tu mnyesal xsudah..
don't know why..da words keep bursting!
without even thinking to say that ekceli..
haisy..parah lau cmni..

kadang2 aku rse better senyap drp bercakap..
but,it's impossible for me yg talkative tahap hape ni..
mmg aku xleh dduk diam kalo jumpa kawan2..
ada je benda nk ckp..
hurmm..

I'll recall one situation..
yang mase interview medic utk USIM bln 5 hari tu,,
aku ditanya pasal abortion..for or against..
aku pn jawab la against n bla2..
pastu dy bg soalan perangkap yg makes me choose for or against..
jawapan aku yg ni aku pn xtau bila masa dy kluar..
sedar2 je tgk interviewer geleng kpala..
maigaahh!!m so dead!
ad ke jawab stuju..
lepas aku baca 1 novel bdk medik ni baru aku prasan..
abortion gane2 pn kna against!
tu melambangkan etika kemanusiaan kot!!
unless on some reasons..dibolehkan..
aiyoooo..silly me..
baru tahu..hahaha XP
kata nk jadik pakar O&G..cemana nih??ish3
don't know la what will happen..
will I be accepted??
wallahua'lam
we'll see da result in a week time..
insyaAllah

lagi satu situasi,bila aku ngn besties,kengkawan..
mmg bcakap xhengat!
kadang2 ada yg menyinggung perasaan mereka tnpa aku sedar..
lpas tu mmg mnyesal giler!!
mintak maaf pn bukan boleh tarik balik kata2 tu..
Astaghfirullahal'azim!!

to my besties EIFJAN,n also kengkawan yg lain..
SORRY YAA..andai ku pernah berkata smething yg menyakitkan hati..
xsengaja..seriouslyyy
insyaAllah i'll controll my words..
huhuhuhu

in da nutshell..in whatever situation,whoever u speak to,,
PLEASE!!
MIND YOUR WORDS..
smoga xde blaku salah faham disebabkan kata2..

and...

kalau la TERBUAT silap,,janganla ego untuk mintak maaf..
peringatan utk diri sendiri jgk..
well,,sape yg xde buat silap kn..
kalo org buat silap n mntak maaf,,jgn la kita xnak maafkan plak..
although mmg sakit hati pn..

1 tips  nk maafkan org,,ingat balik sume kebaikan dy yg banyak giler tu instead of kesalahan dy yg 1 tu..aku rse tu cara terbaik kalo da abes2 marah sgt..kui3

ok then..
that's all for now..
see you again..
wassalam ;)

1 comment:

  1. indeed... :(

    I thhnk i did something to my fren yg buatkan me lost dia... :( cz of what m sayingg

    sedihhh ohhhh

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